It wouldn’t be fair if I was attractive, intelligent, hilarious, and had no psychiatric problems.
i have no idea what i'm doing. ~namaste~
So basically what I don’t understand is how there are treatment centers for addicts and alcoholics but nothing for depressed people or seemingly nothing for people coming off the medicine …I never did anything though. I took the suggestions of others in fact. That’s kind of annoying to me. Drug addicts have better outcomes than people on ssri’s. Idunno
I don’t necessarily blame anyone. It’s just ignorance. But now I realize I’m going to need something more extensive and not medicine in the future. What a bitch this is. Health care is making great improvements and there can be time to reverse the damage maybe. But then it’s so expensive. I feel handicapped. Again I will have a worse outcome than a drug addict at this rate probably. You see how messed up this is.
Ssri’s are probably worse than crack cocaine.
Googleing and reading antidepressant permanent damage
Don’t do it kids, just don’t do it
You think you have anxiety /depression now, just wait
Idea for justice system
When a problem occurs have the parties go to court with randomized juries as per usual. But we shouldn’t have any laws but simply the question can be not ‘is this against the law?’ But instead ‘is this person wrong and how to be punished?’ I think this could work a lot better because we are always making laws now after cases and it’s just becoming a headache for everyone. We obviously change our morals and standards as we learn more so why have all these laws meant to last forever? Just think about the permits, codes, tickets, etc. So yeah.
Ramblings on the cycle of abuse
So the cycle of abuse happens because people feel loyal to their family (which is a biological imperative?) Basically, people learn behaviors and repeat them if not given enough tools to heal.
I think one problem is that the biological imperative is even there when the kids are young and they don’t come forward because whenever anyone discovers someone is a child abuser they are treated like crap. So kids are scared to tell anyone there. Another problem is that many times we find out kids are abused but send them to just live with other relatives which seems weird because, I don’t know, abuse is a sign the whole family is dysfunctional. Not necessarily, but if it’s a cycle why do we put kids back into the cycle? Anyway therapy should be mandated obviously but therapy doesn’t always help. I feel sometimes therapists don’t put enough effort into doing what is proven to work but do what they think is best. And also all this is expensive which is unfair for poor families. Omg and I have heard of teens or males who are victims but not taken seriously. We should teach manners in school too.
Those are a few ideas to help fix the problem.
I think it’s actually kind of shitty that people know about the cycle but still act as if child abusers are pure evil and pretend they just came up with the idea to abuse on their own. I think for some people it’s too late though (can just live the rest of their life in jail) but for the future I think we can consider rehabilitation for even the worst offenders alongside imprisonment. Another problem with society there. There’s no rehabilitation. People are all out for revenge whether or not those methods work.
Anyway here’s a good site on the matter: http://davidmallenmd.blogspot.com/2012/02/hatefulness-as-gift-of-love-part-i.html
Do you care more about truly trying to fix a problem or getting revenge? Getting revenge may or may not stop it from happening. You care less about the victims at that point. Food for thought.
I’m so indecisive I don’t choose anything even within the illusion that we choose anything
Kind of funny that people know most child abusers were abused as children themselves but just neglect this and wonder why it happens. You’re not trying to improve the world if you neglect these things and have no solution then wonder why it happens